Clove Hardwood

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Fair question, and I agree with the concern. While I DO love pictures that are just a close-up of pussy or tits, I usually prefer those either in porn of people I don’t know, or as something out of the ordinary from someone I do know. Part of the fun of photos of a partner, friend, acquaintance, etc., is the personal connection, and that includes more.

I’d say one definite favorite is from behind. Whether it’s on all fours or something similar, seeing a girl’s ass from behind, pussy clearly visible between her cheeks, and maybe looking back at the camera, or looking at it through a mirror, or something, is very, very hot. Gives me her body, gives me her ass, gives me my favorite angle for closed pussy, and gives me her face, which includes that connection to the fact that SHE’s the one taking/sending the picture.

Also the classic spread legs. It’s simple, but effective. Seated on the floor, bed, whatever, facing the camera, legs spread wide, pussy perfectly visible. Especially if it’s casual. Don’t work hard to overdo it. While I’m happy to see masturbating or spread lips (very), underplaying it can be just as hot.

Otherwise, find some simple poses. Simple is good. On your side, just your ass, POV shots down your body (a personal fave, since they represent an angle I can never reproduce), etc.

And then obviously there’s masturbation. Seems too obvious to mention, but I will anyway. Spread lips, clear finger on your clit, and I can never get enough of penetration. Again, though, simple is good. A toy’s great, but I usually find fingers even better than toys. It’s that personal connection of you penetrating yourself that’s so hot to me.

Anyway, those are just a few of my random thoughts. There’s probably always more, but that should give you a starting point.

There is one more rule of thumb, though: if you think it’s sexy, it’ll show. Take a picture of what turns you on about yourself.

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Well you sure know how to start off a conversation. Tell me more. ;)

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That one’s tricky. I have no mental objections to the concept. I’m not opposed to swallowing my cum (if you’ve read my history you’d know I have experience with auto-fellatio which ended in exactly that), men who won’t kiss their partners after they just SUCKED THEM OFF piss me off, and I find plenty of games with cum rather exciting.

The problem is that pretty much the moment I DO cum, my turn-on drops below the threshold that allows for that interest and I’m immediately turned off by the idea, killing the opportunity. I doubt I could put up with being snowballed or anything similar under those circumstances.

Having said all that, that’s potentially where bringing in a third party could allow for things to become more interesting. I’m a huge fan of creampies, but it’s pretty hard to enjoy my own for the reasons stated above. So having a partner hook up with someone else before showing me the evidence could and would lead to all sorts of fun. I’m still not sure I could be comfortable with the person actually being there, but I did have an ex regularly hook up with other guys and provide me with the results. Initially all I could do was photograph it and then fuck her and add my own, but over time I got the overwhelming desire to eat her clean, and eventually did on a couple of occasions. So honestly I don’t have an issue with that scenario and could probably see myself feeding her someone else’s cum out of her own cunt. But again, those scenarios are pretty hard to set up, especially when the other guy’s not aware.

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I’ve come close. Only my last girlfriend was a true cumslut. Everyone before that either had issues with cum (next-to-last girlfriend gagged on precum, although I definitely got her further along than her exes in enjoying facials and other cumshots) or merely didn’t mind swallowing it. None was hardcore enough to eat it off themselves. But my last girlfriend and I never got to the fun cum domination stuff that I had planned for her. We had only gotten to bareback internal creampies a month or so before we broke up, and I had planned to start forcing her to eat my cum back out of herself. She seemed to have a similar cum fixation to mine, and had I begun ordering her to always swallow all my cum no matter where I was when I came, I suspect she would have taken the orders well.

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Sorry I didn’t see this sooner. Formspring flagged it. Wish I could turn that feature off.

Anyway, as you’ve no doubt seen in a later update, things didn’t go too well. While I’m open to trying to come up with ways to salvage the idea, the base principle of being unable to get off while wearing the device is simply not working. While I already knew I could get off with uncomfortable effort while wearing it, the final nail in the coffin was being able to get off with NO effort while wearing it, achieving an entirely hands-free orgasm that was actually decent.

So until I can find a way to actually make getting off somewhere between very difficult and impossible, I’m likely giving up on the idea. I may play with the device a bit more, even using it as a toy, and I may ATTEMPT to use the concept to at least just deny myself access to my cock for an extended period of time, but that’s a bit less interesting.

Honestly, I think the only real hope for it is with an active partner to manage it. To actually order me not to cum, to have consequences lined up for me if I do, and to directly manage the lock and have the ability to regularly monitor me. But I’d only consider that as a game in a relationship. I’d rather not lead a life that way.

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